Play That Funky Music

The music is one of the things that could make or break a party or wedding reception: whether it is a live band or DJ. The selection you make in the DJ or band is important, but not as important as the playlist, especially when the majority of the guests are either the younger or older generation. The best way to be sure of that is to make a song that everybody would like and that would have everybody on the dance floor from the teens to the elderly. Special requests are a nice way for guests to make a loving tribute or dedication to those they love, but there are some special requests that are made just to play the song they like. Not everybody will be okay with a special request, especially if it's not in good taste and one way to keep somebody from doing that is to have the DJ or band only play the song selections you approved of on your playlist.

Nothing screams lame like The Chicken Dance

What's just as important is selecting a live band or DJ that suits your style in music but is willing to work with you on things like pricing, playlists and so forth. If you choose to have a live band, have them audition and ask how long they're willing to play for and what music they'll put on during their intermission to prevent dead air.

Ridiculously bad song renditions are the biggest kill joys of any festivity.

Ipod receptions are the newest trend in some wedding receptions due to the fact that it's a more personal touch for couples and it saves a bundle in hiring a DJ or live band. Some may have a trusted family member, friend or a staff member like an usher (depending on the venue) to make the announcements. Don't get me wrong, there are some cons to this up and coming trend: guests taking it upon themselves to change the song and being SOL if any of the sound equipment goes out since you have to supply your own.

The last thing we all need to hear is the latest death metal or profane laced rap hit.

Moral of the story: Choose your music wisely or you'll end up with more complaints than compliments.